you know what i'm tired of sometimes? giving people advice. And it's not just nice advice like you can do it, sometimes it's like suck it up, be a man. And it's the suck it up, be a man advice that I like giving lol It's straight forward and direct, and normally the most encouraging advice I can give.

When I give the you can do it advice, I say it out of encouragement and also politeness because you can do it. Then there's advice that spans around career, life, relationships, work stuff which is all very complicated.

But I believe I give pretty good damn advice. Advice that I should listen so I can feel better about things in my own life. I won't lie in my advice. I should refrain from using the word advice a lot because it sounds a lil repetitive. Anyway, I don't lie when I'm advising people. I tell them the truth and what I think about it. When a customer asks if these shoes look good on them, I won't directly say no it's ugly take it off, I'd recommend them another pair that doesn't insinuate I disagreed on the first pair.

I mean everything, and I don't expect them to be taken literally. They're called advice for a reason. It's a suggestion to how to handle your situation but doesn't mean they should be taken in effect. But one of the nicest feelings is knowing that someone has taken your advice, and that it has changed them. It's very flattering because people see you as capable of handling situations or your feelings well. They make you feel pretty much (well to me) like a god.

And I like that a lot. Because it shows to me that not only did they take my advice for the better, but that they clearly listened to me and if it's one thing you should know about me, is that I love good listeners. HENCE LOVE, not like. If you're a good listener and reader, you're an instant best friend. Jokes. Not best friends but we'll get along haha

Thursday, October 15, 2015 2:07 PM