It's time to blog.

For the past 10 days since my last exam, I have worked a total of 8 days. Tomorrow is my 9th. I'm raking in a lot of cash and to be honest I started off being very angry about work but it's been 8 days, I'm doing alright.

I have a topic I'd like to talk about. Can girls and guys be friends?

My answer: No.

Why?

1. If it's ever friends, it's always more than just friends.
2. The guy will end up liking her. Not to be insulting to guys but it's true. 
3. This then turns into a whole dramatic and awkward situation where the guy can't pull himself out of this obsession he has with the girl and begins to try and convince her that she doesn't know it yet, she'll like him soon.
4. The girl really just wants to be friends. Why is it so hard.
5. Like I really don't understand why a girl and guy can't stay as friends. Why does it have to turn into a relationship? or why does the guy's feelings matter more than the girls to push her into thinking the same. 
6. And vice versa, if the girl likes him but he doesn't like her (to avoid bias)
7. The guy/ or girl (whoever feels unliked) becomes upset and pooft, "friendship" over.

I've been so fed up with this because I've experienced it 3 times and all 3 have worked out horribly wrong. And in the end I feel like it's my fault, which I shouldn't feel that way because I've done nothing wrong... like is it that hard to become friends with a girl without liking her?


Another topic: Qualities

These are the kind of things that I've noticed that I like in people over the past month or so..

1. Hardworking people- people who have goals/ targets and actually achieve them
2. Active/ adventurous/ ambitious people- i.e not lazy people
3. Generosity- someone who is willing to give up their seat or help an elderly person
4. Unselfish people- because I hate selfish people. You might know who.
5. Understanding- because that's how things are settled

caring, thoughtfulness, kindness, intelligent etcetcetc all that jibber jabber are other stuff but those top 5 are pretty awesome. I like them a lot.

What I really hate:

1. Selfishness- cannot express it enough
2. Hypocrites
3. Absolute rudeness
4. Disrespect- not listening, discriminating etc
5. Interruption- in the queue, on the phone, talking to someone, explaining something

Anyways I was listening to spotify at work and played one of its top lists and this song came up.



I didn't know Sia sang this. This whole time.


And now I'm all of a sudden sad.


Friday, July 4, 2014 9:48 PM