I like good listeners. It bothered me at work today that people who don't listen to me are annoying. This is for everyone but specifically pointed to one person so I'm going to speak in second person referring to 'you'.
Okay well first off, I'm not speaking in a negative manner but I really wished you were a better listener. I mean you talk to me a lot and I talk to you back so I expect you to remember what I tell you because I remember yours but in response, you don't really remember at all. You always ask me how was my day and I'd always say great/ good/ fine/ okay etc but I would never tell you about it because I know I'd be wasting my time telling you it when you practically don't give a crap about my day and you probably won't remember. And even if it has been a very long time since we've talk and I'd ask you 'do you remember when I .......?' - Nope you don't remember because you forgot or you never listen! Listening is the easiest thing in the world. Memory is hardest. Look it won't hurt if you listened to my stories because all I've ever done is listen to yours and ask tonnes of questions and look interested. Please try doing the same?
Also read properly too. I answer all your questions, answer mine. And read everything. Like sometimes you ask me a question and I've already answered it. It's like you didn't read and didn't listen at the same time! My point here is... English is necessary lol and I really like you to listen and read all of my texts/ stories etc because I can't stand having to repeat myself. Oh and because I feel like I've been ignored which is a very sucky feeling. Hope that made sense :-) Friday, January 6, 2012 8:25 PM